Tease and denial

Teases don't allow him to come, but give him the sensation of being on the edge. If you want him to come, check out releases.

Simple teases that don't require your involvement

Here are a set of teases that don't require you to do anything. We no longer do them, as my husband and I agreed that from now on I will be the only one who touches his penis, to make my touch so much more pleasurable to him. But they might come in handy for you.

Keeping it hard

I unlock him and instruct him to keep his penis erect for 1 hour by lightly stroking it. He must not touch the penis more than is the absolute minimum to keep it erect.

Masturbating

He can masturbate but must let go every time he approaches the edge. No edging, just masturbation.

Edging

We roll 2 dice and that is as many edges he must do that night. Edging is the practice of masturbating to the point of almost coming, and then letting the penis go before he actually ejaculates. It makes him very horny without any chance for relief.

Riding the Edge

Harder for him to do without coming than edging is riding his edge. It means that he must remain masturbating gently while on the edge and must do this for a set amount of time (e.g. 30 counts). During this period he must be careful not to stroke himself to orgasm. Deliciously frustrating for him and you, and it will make him putty in your hands.

Feast your eyes

You will allow him to see your breasts, vagina or see you completely nude for as long as he can maintain an erection. Best done while you watch one of your shows so you have something to do.

Email me

He gets to masturbate for as long as he writes you an email with a really hot sex story, complete with nude pictures of him acting out some of the scenes. While he is taking the pictures you will be wondering what the story is about. Have him send everything to you once he is done. No coming, but great reading material and you get an insight in his fantasies. You can tease him afterwards by commenting about how dirty his mind is and how it now makes complete sense that you asked him to take control of his cock. Tell him you will need him to write more stories like that so you stay convinced that he indeed needs his penis locked up.

Pussy delight

Have him lay his head on your naked lap while you watch TV with him. It will drive him crazy. He will have to control the urge to kiss you on your erogenous zones which you may or may not deny. Being so close to your sex with nothing to do will feel delightfully frustrating to him.

Mind fucks

Mind fucks are teases that make sure he never really knows when is going to come, or in some way require him to increase the length of his denial. They are great because they add an element of uncertainty to the game, a sense that anything could happen.

Honey, you set the time

He gets to set the time of his next tease and denial session. But he must make sure that the number of days is bigger than you have in mind, or you'll double it. If he chooses a number higher than yours, hold him to it, unless you need his orgasm prior to that.

Drip, drip

Have him sit above a mirror. He must masturbate himself until a little bit of precum drips on the surface of the mirror. This will require lots of edging on his part.

Forgetfulness

Promise him he will orgasm tomorrow or x date. The next day, don't do anything. Since he is not allowed to ask for sex, he cannot remind you. If he does, give him the penalty. If he does not, mention it the next day and tell him how proud you are . His previous hope and desire will have put his desire on edge. Tell him he deserves a reward when next you are in the mood to release him again. Then let everything take its normal course.

(Not to be cruel I asked my husband what he thought of this and he told me the hope really made his mind race and makes his desires so much more edgy, but he enjoys the occasional surprise. I wanted to make sure he didn't resent my tease. Now, I occasionally forget and it keeps him on his toes.)

Guess who will orgasm tonight?

If he guesses it right, he gets to deliver the orgasm, for whomever it was intended. Of course, no matter what, he guesses it wrong (wink). If he says you, you look saddened at him and tell him "oh, poor boy". If he says "me" just look at him incredulous and tell him he is being so selfish.

I love to see you locked up

Tell him how much you enjoy him being locked up (he will love to hear this) and ask him to voluntarily add time to his chastity to show him how much he loves you. The bigger the number, the more he loves you.

Hang on

You promise him he gets to come tonight. He gets teased mercilessly, until that final, golden moment. Then, right before he comes, you tell him you changed your mind.

Teases that involve you teasing him


Adore me

Sit on top of him and hold his penis. Stroke it once gently for every compliment he can make about you.

Take me to fantasy land

Instruct him to tell you a steaming hot fantasy while you stroke his penis. Then over the next couple of days, feed the fantasy back to him at unexpected times, by whispering part of it while waiting in line, texting it to him, etc.

Confess your sins

Stroke his penis and tell him he will come if he confesses something truly naughty to you. After his first confession, tell him it wasn't big enough for an orgasm. Same with his second confession. After his third confession, stop stroking and tell him you'll try it again another time. Then remind him occasionally at a strategic moment of one of his confessions.

Big secrets

There are certainly things you always wanted to know about your husband. Things in his past, things he may be doing right now. Opinions he has kept to himself. Stroke him and promise him an orgasm if he answers your question truthfully. Keep stroking him and tell him you don't believe that is the whole truth. Try to get every last detail out of him.

Play with me

He gets to see you naked and kiss you all over while he masturbates with no chance of coming, or he opts for 30 days in chastity with a guaranteed chance to come. Of course, in 30 days time, if you don't feel like servicing him, you could simply play the mindfuck game and "forget".

Come watch TV

Lock his hands behind his back and snuggle up to him. Play with his penis while you watch your favorite TV show together.

Bird and a feather

We have this feather thing that is like a soft, thin feather duster. I will sit him in a reclining computer chair, tie his hands to the arms and blindfold him.
I will run the feathers up and down his shaft and balls. After being caged for a few weeks he feels everything. He will get a raging erection and moan in content. I  could do this for hours and he still wouldn't ejaculate. Deliciously frustrating.


Teases that involve penetration


Numb and Number

Put some numbing cream or spray on his penis and then have him wear a condom. He'll be able to have sex with you forever with a minimal chance of coming.

Big Boy

Buy a penis extender and have him wear it. His chances of coming accidentally will be very diminished, and you will get to feel a whole new girth while enjoying the pleasures of your stud fucking you.
An alternative to the penis extender is the dildo attachment that comes with steel belts. A nice twist with the dildo attachment that he can initiate a rough session complete with penetration without needing to be unlocked.