How to block porn


It is important to note that without your help, your husband will continue to watch porn. So while it might seem excessive to take control over security software on his devices to stop him from watching porn, it is the only way you can break his addiction. And he'll feel better for it too.
  • Men have a faint sense of guilt about watching porn
  • He'll appreciate your body much more if it is the only body he can ever see naked
  • His joy in your nudity will be dramatically increased

When I first suggested the idea of blocking all porn with my hubby, I wanted to bet him in a willing state of mind. So I asked him to strip, unlocked his chastity belt, supervised him cleaning himself and then told him to join me on the couch.

I softly started to stroke his penis and he started moaning almost immediately. I then asked him if he watched ever watched porn. It was the pause in his response that gave it away.

I stopped stroking his penis and told him that I find it demeaning that he looks at other women naked and masturbates to them. You will probably have your own reasons why you don't want your man to watch porn, but to me it feels like a form of infidelity. He finally told me that it's only images on a screen... well it's still other women. I don't go looking at other naked men for sexual kicks! These women he looks at are ALL busty. They say they're not "real" women, but they exist somewhere...

I ask him if I am not good enough for him and he says I am. I start stroking him again, I then tell him that I am fulfilling his fantasy with the chastity belt and I want him to fulfill my fantasy of being the only woman he is sexual with. That means giving up his porn and looking away (preferably at me) when nudity is shown on movies or television shows.

I then ask him to go get all his devices and bring them to me and start watching a TV show, something to entertain me while he goes to work securing all his devices. I make sure I sit next to him in case he wants to put in a backdoor and I play mindlessly with his penis to keep him motivated to delete the porn.

On his PC I asked him to buy Net Nanny and install it.

On his iPad and iPhone I asked him to install the K9 browser, it has parental protection and to delete all his own browsers. I also asked him to delete all risky apps, including apps that could stream porn videos (I found out months later that the HBO app streams porn and that he had a backdoor!).

Once all offending apps have been deleted, have him go to settings, tap general, tap restrictions, and set them to on. The phone will ask for a passcode, have him give you the phone and enter a four digit passcode he could never guess (don't use your marriage date).

Now change a few things:
  • disallow safari (toggle to off)
  • in allowed content, set the following apps to a maximum setting of 14 yrs old. He will still be able to download 99% of all apps, just not the riskier once or browsers like safari or chrome that enable him to surf porn without restrictions:
    • Music & podcasts
    • Movies
    • TV Shows
    • Books
    • Apps
    • Siri restrict explicit language and web search content
He can now exit the restrictions page. Without your passcode, his phone or tablet will no longer be able to surf porn.

I am sure you can do this for Android too, a simple web search will tell you how.